Implementing the law of attraction into action: The Muse!
By the time you finish reading this article, I bet you all going to be eating your socks off.
I recall a time when I was in junior school rather than saying,” NO” people would look aside and with their right hand say, “Talk to the black hand because the white hand is full”. Those were the good old days.
The word “NO” literally scares the living daylights out of us. When we hear this word we run 50 miles and hide away at the back of the classroom or in our bedroom. There we are as quite as a mouse. It is there where no one can hear us when we begin yelping like puppy that has been told sorry can’t do.
We live in a world we come across the word, “NO” a thousand times. It may be that you are seeking a job or waiting to get a party invite. It feels like you are more pruned to say “NO” when you are less stressing the buttons of your shirt out than when you are all worked up. For every time you say NO, you are one step to freedom. The majority of people find it hard to say “NO”. It might be two letters but that word simply splits us into half. Although, it’s easier said than done it becomes complicated when the word “NO” is used especially towards a family member.
Did you know that every time you say no a weight is being lifted off your shoulder?… Recently, I encountered a situation whereby a photographer said no to an amazing job that could see their work published in Hollywood. Its pity to say the least that even the good things in life when offered to us on a plate we don’t stop to think TWICE.
When this word is used to kids they tend to scream their lungs out. Parents think that’s the only way children are disciplined. Even as a model sometimes we are thrown into the deep end when photographers tell you to bring certain clothes. They ultimately think money grows on trees. Sometimes that’s where this word “NO” comes in handy.
In a real-life situation we tend to feel guilty just because we are not obliged to say NO to anything. One minute you are taken back to the week when you were in the “NO” mode zone and the next you realise you are saying, YES to everything even the nitty gritty stuff you disapproved of. It is here nor there when we realise that the human brain is playing tricks on us.
However, you like it or not the word, “NO” makes us boil. It’s not the kind of word that leaves you with the mad adrenaline rush in your body and makes you feel like you have won a million.
NO means NO and YES means YES.
After reading this article I hope you will take away this message home: No is never easy to say to anyone but one needs to be strong to say it aloud even if the music comes crushing down on you.
Who are YOU to say NO to? Say Something….
It’s Okay to say NO